love

i believe this one's for all of you.


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Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man/woman of deeds and not for the man/woman of words, for you will find rewarding happiness, not with the man/woman you love but with the man/woman who loves you more.

The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being.

To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving; it only means that you allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.

You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love, that doesn’t mean you failed in love.

Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

There are two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.

There is no mistake so painful that love cannot forgive, no past so bitter that love cannot accept, and no love so little that we cannot start all over with.


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we've got a battle to win, so keep going. (:

JOYEUX ANNIVERSAIRE to mademoiselle shihoay :)

it means HAPPY BIRTHDAY :))
(this is written in some sort of defence because i dont know what 'mari kita sama sama pi Genting' means. lol. )

Dua puluh tahun lo!!! =p hehe

Hope everyone will like the pictures! especially the one who is turning 20 in less that two hour time! =p Happy Birthday Hoay!!! :)
May u stay pretty, healthy and happy!!
May you continue to shine as you always do :)
May the smile on your face bring happiness around :)
May you always love yourself! and of course love us too =p

May all of us TREASURE OURSELVES :) u and i deserved that :)

lots of love,
Xinying :)

Last but not least! this beautiful family pic! =)

Our memories

Photos gallery ~ our sweet sweet memories :)

short note

randomly came across this microscopic structure while studying Renal System. =)
a little humour from the pathologist.

jiayou studying!

happy weekend

xoxo
hoay

Poem

A poem for all of you zhabors! :)

On my birthday,
i made my friends come in green TEEs,
as we sat down and wait for justin LEE,
we ordered crysanthemum TEA,
when it's time to PEE,
they took out my cake which is of green TEA,
and that makes me a happy CUTIE :)


cutie: i wish that i will grow taller ( oppss, thats not my bday wish k, but someone elses' =P)

thankyou so much for coming for the dinner in the midst of all the craziness.

thank you sooo much for the hearts :) i know you guys love me. now i am so busy handling the hearts everyday, as you know, hearts are fragile items ( once broken, considered sold! ) oh ya, forgot that i found jinying's atrium in imu atrium justnow. LOL.

leaf: queen, jinying, fatimah,jeannie, hannie, hoay( slightly blocked for some OBVIOUS reason)
sky: vv
cloud: yingc
stone: balala
tree trunk: justin

lastly, thankyou so much for the friendship.

Bless, because you are blessed:)
and you guys are definitely one of my blessings in life!

from the land of green tea,
kairou :)

hohoho!

HOHO!

counting down 3 more days! we are going to:



LOL. wrong pic! this we shall reserve for another time. but one of my childhood ( and current) dreams is to visit all the disneylands in the world. i have yet to visit any of them :(

anywayyyyy, we are going to this:


not too bad also la k. at least it's not freezing cold like mount k, and its not as hot as kl la..so yuppp...look forward to the crazy things that we are going to do up there, especially the rides in the theme park which has got height limit. ( i am sure somebody will =p) lol.


STUDY HARD in the mean time.

''play hard, study even harder''



from the land of hamsapness,
kairou